Laverne Cox and Hari Nef Discuss Being Transgender in Hollywood — and Living Your Most Authentic Life "I'm very lucky that Johnny and I are friends and I think this song shows our friendship perfectly." What is a role that you would love to play that doesn't have to do with your gender?IM: When we got off the plane, we asked for a picture with him. Even though he was on his way to work, he took the time to talk with me. I told him about the conference and why disability rights and self-direction were important to me. As he listened, my colleagues and I were struck by his kindness, compassion, and authenticity.